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Daily Mantra and Affirmation: The Reflection of The Muse

Posted On: May 31, 2016


"Reflect, look into the mirror of your soul and find the muse in you.

 


The spectrum of your light to spark creativity."


-- Andrale Marie'


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Dating Rules: How It Applies From Dining Etiquette To Ordering 'Skrimps,' Saying Too Much, Using Your Phone & Etc.

Posted On: May 30, 2016

You finally hook up on a date with the man or woman you've been crushing on. First impression is everything and they did that. So, far the date is going fine but then it takes a left turn. Sometimes, the first impression ends up being the last.

How can we forget that memorable dating scene from the movie Daddy's Little Girls of Julia played by Gabrille Union. The storyline was Julia's friends convinve her of a date which they set up for her. Upon meeting this man, Julia knew he was not the one. But she remained and tried to endure the date. Julia's date Bryon played by Craig Phillip Robinson who is a comedian in real life, exhibited the funny character of '40 Percent.' The whole scene was hilarious of 40 Percent kicking a rhyme to Julia, lacking dining etiquette and had the nerve to call shrimps, skrimps. 

So, this is where I am going to pick up on about the rules of dating and how it can add or subract points on a date. You can either turn the person on or turn them off. In the above scene, 40 Percent is just out there, he doesn't care, his dining at some fancy restaurant that can be called Le Château and all he's thinking about is chinese food. He has on a bright blue Easter suit, goes on to tell Julia what he would do with her lips and seems to be full of himself about his wood game. Then he starts screaming for the waiter. Instead of it being a dream date, it was a nightmare for Julia.

It's obvious this character 40 Percent most likely broke all the rules. Should it really be called rules because in reality there are no rules when it comes to love. When two people are on a date, it is important to take into consideration of being on your best behavior and still keep it real of who you are. There's a time and place for everything. You can't wear a suit to go farming. Also, don't try to be somebody else or put on act of who you're not and if somebody is already lying on the first date then the seed of that relationship is all based on lies and won't be a fruitful one. But anyhow, there's overall and general etiquettes when it comes to dating: from table manners, to use of language, saying too much or revealing too much and; not leaving enough space for mystery and for the person to get to know you.

And let's not forget about the phones and using phones while on a date, which can appear to be rude or disrespectful to the other person. The lack of interaction shows lack of interest and can also cause the date to be boring. After the date, now she's on her phone telling all her friends about it. 

How can all of this be avoided? To make dating interesting, fun, interactive and a memorable one that leaves a person mesmerized after it. Besides overall etiquette and consideration, personality goes a long way. 

Telling a joke and making the other person laugh, plants a seed of joy in their heart and blooms into a smile. It's all about creating an atmosphere that's inviting, momentous, intriguing; and impressive enough for the person to want to date you again. 

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Life's Transformation Happens With The Willingness to Evolve

Posted On: May 29, 2016

The butterfly is very symbolic because it totally became a different being. The caterpillar and butterfly are not the same but the butterfly had to be a caterpillar first, in order to become the butterfly.

It resonates evolution, the aspects of transformation in life and the importance of progression.

The butterfly can teach us a lot about life, how to manifest goals, dreams; and how growth is essential. In accomplishing goals and dreams, one must be willing to change what might hinder the progress of it. The willingness to grow, transform, mature mentally, spiritually; and emotionally. And whatever areas that need to be fertilized and harvested, towards evolving into the person who will live the life of those goals and dreams. 

"Evolution is the process of transformation. The butterfly can not exist without the caterpillar. Once we understand this, we will gain all from life experiences that cultivates and enhances our growth."

- Andrale Marie'

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Do Soulmates Exist? Well, If You Exist Of Course They Do

Posted On: May 28, 2016

How can one define soulmates? Some people question the existence of them and if you exist, so does your soulmate. 

I believe it's that one person you somehow connect on a level that words can't capture, it's powerful, it transcends understanding but somehow you know it's real, you can feel it down to the core of your soul. And sometimes, it's de ja vu, like somebody you've known your whole lifetime, their energy and aura are familiar to you; although it's the first time you've met them. 

Soulmates to me are two people that are one in love. One mind, one heart and one soul. It's that person who challenges your weakness to turn them into strength, it's the person that helps you face your fears so you see yourself for who you truly are, they push you to grow and evolve into the woman or man that you are created to be, they magnify you and everything around you start to magnify as well. Not in material things but on a level that is beyond the surface. It's more mental, it's more spiritual and with that, the lovemaking feels out of this world, it transports you into another dimension. 

Love is real and don't let anybody, not even yourself convince you that it's not. Just don't ever give up on it, no matter what happens. Because it is you that gives love power and nurtures it. Singleness is choice for some. Many people are afraid of being alone and they sometimes tend to jump from relationship to relationship, without ever giving themselves time to heal, space to unload baggages and weight that's holding them down from prior relationships but most of all, to cleanse themselves of that person's energy they were involved with. Also, to take the time to get to know who they are and discover themselves. Learn from past relationship mistakes, instead of recycling experiences because the lessons hasn't been learned yet.


Generally, you have to become the person you want to attract. Your soulmate exists in you. Open your heart and keep it pure because it is the source where all things flow from. Your heartbeat is the wavelength to the universe. So, let it beat to the sound of love and your soulmate will hear it and find her or his way into your heart.  

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When You Look Within, You Will Find All That Enriches You and The Wealth of Your Soul

Posted On: May 28, 2016

"Extract all that God instilled in you, that is the vault of your blessings."

-- Andrale Marie'

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The Only Light At The End of The Tunnel, Is You

Posted On: May 28, 2016

"Discover and become one with what comes natural to you, keep at it, continue to grow; and magnify in it!

Because it is the core, the truth of your soul and most of all, the seed of your purpose."

-- Andrale Marie'

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Daily Mantra and Affirmation: Twitter Hashtag - #MondayMotivation

Posted On: May 23, 2016

Monday gives some people the blues, others find no motivation in going to work or just going about their day. I don't know if it's something psychological, programming or just human nature. But anyhow, to alleviate some of the stress Monday brings for some people, many businesses as well as Twitter has made a devotion in motivating people on Mondays, to get them fired up so they don't get fired and most of all; to bring out the boss in them.

Twitter has a hashtag called #MondayMotivation that trends every Mondays of course, where people from all walks of life drop gems of knowledge and wisdom to help others shine. 

So, kicking off today's Twitter's #MondayMotivation comes from Kris Jenner who basically turned her bloodline into an empire. If anybody knows about branding and franchising a name, it's Kris with the K and that's for Kardashian. 

Let's check out Kris Jenner's motivating jewels below.

This is an overall classic gem, you are only as strong as your weakest link. A house withstands many storms because of its foundation. Like Kris Jenner expressed in the quote above, your support system is suppose to lift you up in inspiring and motivating you. And if they're not, then why be around them? Because they will only bring you down.

Also, as you begin to raise your vibrations and frequencies to elevate yourself in energies, you will gradually notice who's pulling you up or down. So, stay fly and keep rising to the top! 

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